Our DIY Wedding : The Preparation

Better late than never. Yes, it's been a more than a month since our wedding and finally I got the time and zeal to reminisce the preparations that we had on our May 5, 2012 wedding. It is nice to bring back those efforts exerted, the fun at shopping items, those sweet memories, relationships tested, friends' helping hands and God's overflowing providence.

Let me start off with the bridal shower and/or stag party combined. It is a tradition in the community that when someone's getting married, brothers and sisters will gather together to have fun with the couple. Games, honoring and advises.. and lots of laughter 

What comes next are the little things about wedding. 

We had marriage ban posted weeks before the wedding! :)

Dave and I wanted to have a simple and personalized affair with the people dear to us. We decided to have things crafted by ourselves that reflect who we are us a couple. Laid back, simple and sweet.

Groomsmen and sponsors' boutonnieres that I did myself :)

Inspiration that I got from the web for one of the flower girls' sign to carry!

Mustache for the photo wall that we also did ourselves!

The signage at the photo wall :)

DIY flower girl basket :)

Love and support from family and friends are for me the best part of any wedding :)

Our wedding was also DIO (Did It Ourselves). It wouldn't had been possible if not for all the people who had always been there for us.

 And many many more... Will be posting the wedding day's details in the next post.

i - SWER!

Twenty days ago (as of this writing), 8 soon-to-be-married couples have been blessed enough to have SWER [Singles Weekend Engagement Retreat] organized by our beloved titas and titos, ates and kuyas from the community. It has been an overwhelming experience for us in preparing ourselves for the popular vocation - marriage.

*April 30, 2011 (7:00pm - 12midnight)

 

The night started with a sumptuous meal of pasta and pizza. It was in a form of group date that everyone enjoyed. Chikahan here and there :)

What followed was more of filling the spiritual needs for to-be-married couples. Prayers and talks by our dear 'elders' in the community. Praise be to God for them who were with us throughout the retreat.

Group picture muna before the guys went to their quarters.

Ate Jane told us that to have some reflection time ('twas her way of staying us awake and still on our dresses for the surprise prepared for us). At nainip ako haha, nakabihis halfway ng pantulog when the guys had their surprise for us. Brought roses for their respective partner and danced while kuya Joms serenaded us. Dave also played the guitar to which I sang along.

A beautiful night indeed.

May 1, 2011 - And the lovely morning comes! We drove off to Empire Hotel to witness the rising of the sun while we (the couples) will have some time together. Pray. Talk. Bond.

The sun was just so gorgeous that day that we have to take the opportunity to have pictures by our resident photographer Ms. Carem :).  [Below : Dave and I]

Lovely Couple #1 - Kiko and Sheena . To be wed sometime in 2012.

Love couple # 2 - Sam and Girlie. To be wed on August 6, 2011.

Lovely couple # 3 Merf and Kitchie. Wedding is on July 30, 2011.

Lovely couple # 4 Jim and Aike. Wedding is set on May 12, 2011.

Lolo Berts wishing his mahal was there too.

Mi She and Yurie (was not able to attend due to some work restrictions) are the second pair to be wed, May 14, 2011.

Mi Lhen is missing her honey (Kuya Albert), they are getting married on August 13, 2011.

Kuya Amiel and Ate Jane who accompanied us throughout the event. ''Para na rin kaming nag reretreat'' as quoted from Ate Jane.

After the photoshoot, we headed back to Holiday Lodge Hotel for the rest of the program.

We ended the program filled with lessons. Stomachs are also filled hehe. We are all grateful for all who supported us, for those who sponsored and for those who prayed for us. Our hearts are filled with joy. Thanks and praise be to God for all of these. KKBBH!

Photos courtesy of Miss Carem Lemence :)

Mga Kasal-Kasali-Kasalo

Kasal - n. Two weddings of our dear friends (May 12 and 14) Jimmy Cabalu - Criselda Boller & Yurie Bautista - Sherryl Borromeo respectively.


Kasali - v. as in we are honoured to have attended the two weddings

Kasalo - v. Salo-salo with the foods at the celebration (lafang time hehe) but that's just the other part. In deeper sense, these two couples have become part of my/our lives.

Weddings have always fascinated people from different walks of life. Whenever I hear the word ' wedding', to me  it means two people have found enough courage to finally settle and be with the one they love forever. A lifetime commitment as they say.
It was my first and second time to finally witness a Catholic wedding in the church with the priest giving the mass. The first wedding I have attended is what they call intermarriage, in which the other party is not a Catholic that's why the ceremony doesn't include a celebration of the Eucharist to which a normal Catholic wedding does.
And so for the month of May, I feel blessed to be part of the weddings of my dear friends.

May 12 was a very special day for Jim and Aike a.ka. wabby as it marks the beginning of their union together. Family on both sides flocked from the Philippines just to witness their vows for each other. Before that day, we've helped them in ways that we can in decorating the church, preparing the materials for their big day, etc. And so the morning came, I went to the salon to curl my hair and Dave has pledged to take the doves for them. 'Twas 12 o' clock in the afternoon when we were set to go to church and witness their commitment to each other. Fr. Arin solemnized their vows in front of family and friends. Reception followed at Holiday Lodge Hotel where everyone shared a night of love and laughter and a lot of dancing hehehe.. Filles with love and fun wedding for these two :).. Congrats again Wabby & Jimboy!!

                   The now husband and wife together with Fr. Arin :) (Photo by Carem)

                          With the secondary sponsors (Photo by Kuya Nicky)

                          Dave and I lighting the candles  ( Photo by Kuya Nicky)

                           Wabby and I at the reception.. (Photo by Kuya Nicky)

                                Mga ayaw magpapicture hahaha :D

    I can't get enough with this girl with a big laugh.. I find her so cute hehe

After two days, it was Momi She and Yurs2x day of celebration of life and love. I wasn't present for the ceremony since I had to work whole day on Saturdays but I was able to attend the celebration. I've seen the joys on their faces. Such pure joy. I've known these two because we're batchmates in SFC (Singles for Christ). And I've witnessed their love story as well. So happy when it was made known that they will seal their love with the church's blessing. All the best for you Mi She and Yurs2x!!

           The couple with Bishop Sim & entourage [below] (Photo by Carem)

                                  At the reception ( Photo by Carem) 

    Many thanks to photographers Kuya Nicky and Carem (self-proclaimed hobbyist) :)


At sa huli, ang dami kong nakuhang tips for our wedding soon hehe.. KKBBH

Tin's Bday and Movie Night

                                          Adorable baby Kaiser gleefully joined!


April 18, 2011. Tamang tama birthday ni Tintin who was kind enough to treat us some slices of pizza :)

We got together one Holy Monday evening to watch a movie ''Facing the Giants''.
 The movie is Christian Faith inspired so I thought it would be good to share to them.

Before the movie rolled, we had some simple dishes for dinner; slices of garlic chicken and tuna filled pizza, chicken and some grapes.

Before the evening ended we had fun sharing some music while inside the car.
 I asked them some of  the latest girly songs, coz my phone doesn't have any haha :)).

Till next time then girls. I all love you. Hugs*

First Girlfriends' Date

                                 From Left to Right : Aby, Xenia, Sheena, Ivy

These beautiful and radiant young ladies were with me one lovely night (March 29,2011).
We shared a full dinner at padang near the COLA - Church of our Lady of Assumption.
Glad to have them as the members of the group I am facilitating, they are 5 in all, not in picture are Phaw and Joan who went back to Philippines to process her documents. I had a date with Phaw the day before.

Aby is a cheerful young lady who hopes to find her prince charming and get married asap (according to her) haha peace abby :D. She works as an accounts assistant in Jollibee Brunei.

Sheena is a fine young woman who's very supportive of her fiance'. They're planning to get married soon.
She has been very grateful of the love that she is receiving from her future in-laws.

Ivy is the unica hija, as in only child and no siblings. When asked if given the chance would she want any siblings and she replied a giggling yes :). This young lady always smiles,her cute laugh is just contagious. :)

More dates coming soon.....

Catching Up The Breeze

                                                                  Dave and Xen

                                                           

                                                                Walking barefoot :)

                                                                  Tin, Wabby Aike and Xen

                                                               Tintin muni-muni mode :D

Holiday. No work. Road trip.Bonding time.Share the laughter. Beautiful day.

I love the candidness and the joy shown on the pictures above.
It was a warm morning when we decided to go to the beach, to enjoy the sea breeze.
Then we decide to take our brunch at a Chinese restaurant nearby.
After which, Jim (not in photo) suggested that we'd go to a rainforest mini falls along the way and so we went.
They swam, Dave, Tin and I didn't. I love the coolness of water as it is at the middle of the virgin forest.

It was a lovely day indeed.

Sa uulitin ;)....